
Anger is an emotion we are taught to manage, control and suppress(压抑;抑制). But what if(假如……会怎样) anger is, as poet David Whyte says, one of the deepest possible forms of compassion(同情;怜悯) available to humankind?
我们从小被教导要管理、控制、压抑愤怒。但假如愤怒——正如诗人戴维·怀特所说——是人类所能拥有的最深层的同情形式之一呢?
Philosophers and theologian(神学家)s have long distinguished between virtuous(有德行的;高尚的) and non-virtuous anger. Aristotle defined anger as “a desire, accompanied by pain, for apparent retribution, aroused by an apparent, undeserved slighting against oneself or those connected to oneself”.(亚里士多德将愤怒定义为“一种伴随痛苦的欲望,欲求显而易见的报复,由针对自己或与自己相关者的、显而易见的、不应得的轻慢所激起”。)
哲学家与神学家早已区分有德之怒与无德之怒。亚里士多德将愤怒定义为“一种伴随痛苦的欲望,欲求显而易见的报复,由针对自己或与自己相关者的、显而易见的、不应得的轻慢所激起”。
Anger appears to combine a physical sensation of torment(折磨;煎熬) with a desire to act. The English word “anger” has its etymological(词源的) roots in the Old Norse angr, meaning grief and sorrow, and the Latin angere, to strangle(勒死;扼住), referring to the sensation of chest tightening, fists clenching, blood boiling(热血沸腾;怒不可遏).
愤怒似乎把一种身体上的煎熬感与行动的欲望结合在一起。英语单词“anger”的词源可追溯到古诺斯语 angr(意为悲伤与哀痛)和拉丁语 angere(意为勒死、窒息),后者指胸口发紧、拳头攥紧、热血沸腾的感觉。